Ernie ♥ Rutherford

1943 - 1992
LocationSidcup, Kent.
Age49 years
Cause of DeathCancer
Date of Birth23/06/1943
Date of Death17/10/1992
Visitors3,684 since 06/04/2007
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♥´*•.¸(*•.¸♥ ¸.•*´)OUR WONDERFUL FATHER(*•.¸♥ ¸.•*´)¸.•*´♥


My dad was 1 of 10 children he had 7 Brother’s & 2 Sister’s
He had 3 children, 2 boys, Olly & Ernie and a girl Mary.
At the time of his death he had 8 grandchildren, None of them were old enough to remember him. He
now has 16 grandchildren.

My Dad was a very loving caring man, He had time for everyone and was loved and respected by all who
knew him, He liked a drink, He went out to the pub every night only for an hour or two but in that
time he could sink about 10 pints lol and he was proud of that.

If we was ever ill as kids, My dad would be so worried about us he would sit with us all night long
and not leave us for a minute, He would sponge us down if we had a high temperature. He tried to
give us everything we wanted, He was a good man I loved him he was MY DAD.

My Dad was on a night out in Old Kent Road, London with his mate Tony when he felt ill, He went
outside the pub and was sick, He brought up a lot of blood, so his friend called an ambulance, My
dad was taken straight to hospital, they couldn’t find out why he brought up all this blood so he
left the hospital, He had an appointment to go back but didn’t bother, He didn’t like
hospitals.

In January 1992 my grandad died and at the same time my dad started to get very bad pains in his
stomach, He was taken into our local hospital then he was transferred to a London hospital, They
found out he had cancer of the pancreas, They said they could operate but the operation would take 7
hours and that he would be ok, So on the 20th February which was my mum's birthday he had what
should of been this 7 hour op But 1 hour later we saw the doctor on the ward who should been
operating on my dad so we asked “Why are you here” “Why aren’t you with my dad”, He took
us into a side room, The doctor said" Please sit down I've got some bad news, He said when we opened
your dad's stomach he was full of cancer, It was everywhere, he said "We are so sorry it didn’t
show up on the scan's", He said " Do you want to know how long your dad's got, I was gob smaked, I
just couldn’t think straight, I was in shock, I just said “Yes tell me I need to know”, He
said 3 to 6 months, I said, " But my dad was ok just a few weeks ago". I just couldn’t believe
it, We got my dad up out of bed and took him home, In them next few weeks we cried so many tears
together, My dad would hold my face in his hands and look me in the eyes and say “You know I'm
going to die don’t you, You know I'm dying”, Then he would cry and say “None of my
grandchildren will remember me” Oh it was heartbreaking to see a man who was the head of the
family just wasting away to nothing, I hated seeing my dad cry. I told him I will always talk about
him and make sure all the grandchildren knew what a good, kind, loving man he was. We had him with
us for 9 months, He passed away peacefully at home with my mother and brother Ernie by he's side. I
was'nt there. :0(

Looking after my dad was the hardest thing I’ve ever done in my life, watching him turn into
someone i didn’t know, It was so hard, But I would do it all again if I had to. My dad was my best
friend I loved him to bits, my life will never be the same ever again.


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WE WILL LOVE AND MISS YOU FOREVER DAD

THE MOST WONDREFULL DAD THAT EVER LIVED
WHAT EVER HE HAD HE WAS WILLING TO GIVE
A SPECIAL SMILE, A HAPPY FACE
A SPECIAL DAD THAT CAN NEVER BE REPLACED
A LOVING TRIBUTE SMALL AND TENDER
TO A DAD WE LOVED AND WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER.
ALL OUR LOVE XXXXXXXX
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OUR GRANDAD

When all the flowers have faded
And the people have all gone
You will not be forgotten
Your memory lives on
Your love it will surround us
You always will be near
Because you are our Grandad
And we will always hold you dear.
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To all the kind people who are just passing by, And to all our family and friends, Thank you so much
for lighting a candle and leaving your tributes. It means the world to me.
love and best wishes from Mary & Family. THANK YOU!
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Please visit my beautiful sister in laws site. http://jackie-margurite-evans.gonetoosoon.co.uk/

THANK YOU.
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Happy birthday to you,
Happy birthday to you,
Happy birthday my darling dad
Happy birthday to you.
Have a wonderful day in heaven.
lots of love Mary

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ENJOY YOUR BIRTHDAY IN HEAVEN LOVE YOU X X X X

Mary Starbuck Nee Rutherford (Daughter) June 23, 2009

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┊   ✿✿HAPPY BIRTHDAY DAD

✿YOUR SO VERY SPECIAL

We miss you now, our hearts are sore,
As time goes by we miss you more,
Your loving smile, your gentle face,
No one can fill your vacant place.

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┊   ✿✿WE LOVE AN MISS YOU SO MUCH

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Mary Starbuck Nee Rutherford (Daughter) June 23, 2009

Miss you Dad x x x

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Dear Angel........

If we could only speak to you,
And hold your loving hand,
No matter what we said or did,
We know you'd understand.
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Memory is a lovely lane,
Where hearts are ever true,
A lane we so often travel down,
Because it leads to you.
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Sadly missed along life's way,
Quietly remembered every day,
No longer in our lives to share,
But in our hearts you're always there.
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Your presence we miss,
Your memory we treasure,
Loving you always,
Forgetting you never.
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All Our Love Now And Always
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Mary Starbuck Nee Rutherford (Daughter) June 23, 2009

My Dad x

All our days we think of you
And our hearts ache us to say.
Our teardrops are trying to tell us
That we miss you more each day.

We will have some good days
But often they are bad
Thinking of how sweet you are
And the memories we have.

We will try and carry on
through the heartache and the pain,
We know it wont be long
Till your in our arms again.


Love and Miss you forever Dad x x x

Mary Starbuck Nee Rutherford (Daughter) May 13, 2009

Love & Miss You Dad x-x-x-x

Were Sending A Dove To Heaven
With A Parcel On It's Wings
Be Careful How You Open It
It's Full Of Wonderful Things
Inside Are A Million Kisses
Wrapped Up In A Million Hugs
To Say How Much We Miss You
And How Much That You Are Loved

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Mary Starbuck Nee Rutherford (Daughter) March 16, 2009

Love u Dad

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♥ THREE LITTLE WORDS FORGET ME NOT♥ ♥
♥ THEY DON'T SAY MUCH BUT MEAN A LOT
♥ FORGET YOU NOT WE NEVER WILL♥ ♥
♥ COS IN OUR HEART WE KEEP YOU STILL♥

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Mary Starbuck Nee Rutherford (Daughter) March 4, 2009

MY DAD

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Mary Starbuck Nee Rutherford (Daughter) February 18, 2009

I AM LOST DAD

Im lost and im lonely since you went away
My teardrops fall as i awake every day

I cant stand the light, my eyes are all sore
My heart is broken, as i wont see you no more

The nights are lonely, the days are sad
And thats because i have lost my dear dad

What if my memorys start to fade away
Will i remember them until my dying day

I cant help but cry as i miss him so
If only, if only my dad dident have to go xxxx

Mary Starbuck Nee Rutherford (Daughter) February 6, 2009

Angel

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Tear drops, slow and steady,
The pain so real and true,
God took another angel,
And that angel, Dad, was you.
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Love & Miss you forever xxx

Mary Starbuck Nee Rutherford (Daughter) February 6, 2009

Thinking of you always

In my thoughts and prayers.

Many moments... many tears...
Many thoughts won't disappear

Many memories bittersweet
Many years left incomplete

Many days spent in denial
Many wishes for your smile

Many hopes and dreams are gone
Many days are spent withdrawn

Many years have passed me by
Many times I still ask why

Many people think I'm fine
Many times I've begged for signs


Many sleepless nights are spent
Many hours with torment

Many moments... many tears
Many more in future years

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Mary Starbuck Nee Rutherford (Daughter) February 1, 2009
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