| Location | Sidcup, Kent. |
| Age | 49 years |
| Cause of Death | Cancer |
| Date of Birth | 23/06/1943 |
| Date of Death | 17/10/1992 |
| Visitors | 5,045 since 06/04/2007 |
| Creator |
♥´*•.¸(*•.¸♥ ¸.•*´)OUR WONDERFUL FATHER(*•.¸♥ ¸.•*´)¸.•*´♥
My dad was 1 of 10 children he had 7 Brother’s & 2 Sister’s
He had 3 children, 2 boys, Olly & Ernie and a girl Mary.
At the time of his death he had 8 grandchildren, None of them were old enough to remember him. He now has 16 grandchildren.
My Dad was a very loving caring man, He had time for everyone and was loved and respected by all who knew him, He liked a drink, He went out to the pub every night only for an hour or two but in that time he could sink about 10 pints lol and he was proud of that.
If we was ever ill as kids, My dad would be so worried about us he would sit with us all night long and not leave us for a minute, He would sponge us down if we had a high temperature. He tried to give us everything we wanted, He was a good man I loved him he was MY DAD.
My Dad was on a night out in Old Kent Road, London with his mate Tony when he felt ill, He went outside the pub and was sick, He brought up a lot of blood, so his friend called an ambulance, My dad was taken straight to hospital, they couldn’t find out why he brought up all this blood so he left the hospital, He had an appointment to go back but didn’t bother, He didn’t like hospitals.
In January 1992 my grandad died and at the same time my dad started to get very bad pains in his stomach, He was taken into our local hospital then he was transferred to a London hospital, They found out he had cancer of the pancreas, They said they could operate but the operation would take 7 hours and that he would be ok, So on the 20th February which was my mum's birthday he had what should of been this 7 hour op But 1 hour later we saw the doctor on the ward who should been operating on my dad so we asked “Why are you here” “Why aren’t you with my dad”, He took us into a side room, The doctor said" Please sit down I've got some bad news, He said when we opened your dad's stomach he was full of cancer, It was everywhere, he said "We are so sorry it didn’t show up on the scan's", He said " Do you want to know how long your dad's got, I was gob smaked, I just couldn’t think straight, I was in shock, I just said “Yes tell me I need to know”, He said 3 to 6 months, I said, " But my dad was ok just a few weeks ago". I just couldn’t believe it, We got my dad up out of bed and took him home, In them next few weeks we cried so many tears together, My dad would hold my face in his hands and look me in the eyes and say “You know I'm going to die don’t you, You know I'm dying”, Then he would cry and say “None of my grandchildren will remember me” Oh it was heartbreaking to see a man who was the head of the family just wasting away to nothing, I hated seeing my dad cry. I told him I will always talk about him and make sure all the grandchildren knew what a good, kind, loving man he was. We had him with us for 9 months, He passed away peacefully at home with my mother and brother Ernie by he's side. I was'nt there. :0(
Looking after my dad was the hardest thing I’ve ever done in my life, watching him turn into someone i didn’t know, It was so hard, But I would do it all again if I had to. My dad was my best friend I loved him to bits, my life will never be the same ever again.
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WE WILL LOVE AND MISS YOU FOREVER DAD
THE MOST WONDREFULL DAD THAT EVER LIVED
WHAT EVER HE HAD HE WAS WILLING TO GIVE
A SPECIAL SMILE, A HAPPY FACE
A SPECIAL DAD THAT CAN NEVER BE REPLACED
A LOVING TRIBUTE SMALL AND TENDER
TO A DAD WE LOVED AND WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER.
ALL OUR LOVE XXXXXXXX
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OUR GRANDAD
When all the flowers have faded
And the people have all gone
You will not be forgotten
Your memory lives on
Your love it will surround us
You always will be near
Because you are our Grandad
And we will always hold you dear.
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To all the kind people who are just passing by, And to all our family and friends, Thank you so much for lighting a candle and leaving your tributes. It means the world to me.
love and best wishes from Mary & Family. THANK YOU!
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Please visit my beautiful sister in laws site. http://jackie-margurite-evans.gonetoosoon.co.uk/
THANK YOU.
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Happy Birthday Ernie
Happy Birthday Ernie, we hope you have had a really good day . i know were a bit late but didnt realise its come so quick, we miss you Ern , we could always have a good ole chat with you, God Bless You R.I.P love Ernie & Kath xXx
Hello Grandad,
i love you + miss youu!
i no your not here but i no your watching over me and can see everything im writing..
i never knew you but i no you were a lovely dad and grandad and im gutted i wernt born a coupple years earlier,
i love you so much and i'll see you soon!
Love From Leah,
P.S. ella ronnie ernie an katie all said hello and love you too! x
Happy New Year
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Happy New Year 2010 Ernie
have a good one in heaven
go n find Jackie & my Dad
and have a good drink
love Ernie Kath Kerry,
Sarah & Sam miss you R.I.P.
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hi ernie well it been a time now that i wrote something but i can say that your family is missing you even your relative but when i talk to mary she has a ever lasting love for her dad just like i have for my mum she would have done anything for her dad i spoke to for a few how she idderlised her dad she alway remembers he dad brithday she always thinks of you she spoke about you and she said that her dad was a great man he always made sure that he looked after his family give them what they needed this man was not just a great father but agood gread father as well i seen the photos of this man and he alway look happy RIP ERNIE YOUR IN THE HEARTS OF ALL YOUR FAMILY R IP CUZ X
Happy Christmas Ernie
Hello Ernie, ive just come to wish you a Happy Christmas in heaven. i hope things thats happening down here arnt upsetting you to much you take care love Ernie & Kath xXx
Happy birthday to you,
Happy birthday to you,
Happy birthday my darling dad
Happy birthday to you.
Have a wonderful day in heaven.
lots of love Mary
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ENJOY YOUR BIRTHDAY IN HEAVEN LOVE YOU X X X X
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┊ ✿✿HAPPY BIRTHDAY DAD
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✿YOUR SO VERY SPECIAL
We miss you now, our hearts are sore,
As time goes by we miss you more,
Your loving smile, your gentle face,
No one can fill your vacant place.
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Miss you Dad x x x
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Dear Angel........
If we could only speak to you,
And hold your loving hand,
No matter what we said or did,
We know you'd understand.
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Memory is a lovely lane,
Where hearts are ever true,
A lane we so often travel down,
Because it leads to you.
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Sadly missed along life's way,
Quietly remembered every day,
No longer in our lives to share,
But in our hearts you're always there.
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Your presence we miss,
Your memory we treasure,
Loving you always,
Forgetting you never.
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All Our Love Now And Always
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